Weekends

I had a good weekend. There wasn't anything too terribly exciting that happened, it was just another good normal weekend spent with my gf. Yes, it's the little things. The little things that she does, makes me happy, I'm easily amused.

Society Nowadays

When it comes to dating, I know and understand that it's all about preferences. But what i don't understand is when someone start avoiding certain people based on the stereotyping implanted in their head by media or society or parents. I NEVER think it's fair at all why many people don't even try to get to know a person further before making any judgement aside. Yes, i gotta admit, i'm a human myself that we can't ignore our very 1st impression towards someone but then don't you think that we need to give everybody a chance to prove themselves? Thats what implanted in our head by society or even our own parents aren't good at all SOMETIMES or MANY TIMES??

I was chatting with a friend on MSN. She told me that her parents didn't mind whomever she dated or married later on, BUT her parents specifically advise her not to date non Christians?. then i asked her why??? she herself can't answer, she just knew that her parents wouldn't prefered it so now she just had to date someone else whom are in the same religion. If i'm that dude, I would be pist and dissapointed!

Apologise for being too blunt.

Answers Needed

In general, does SIZE really matter? So what you think? Is size important? or the functionality more important? why? :P

And so can someone tell me why they call it G-string? or G-spot? why G? why not Z? or X? or K?? Does G stand for 'Good'? or 'Gay'? or Gold? or...??? :) Just wondering, I hope someone can enlighten me.

In life....

There's nothing so perfect that everything goes exactly how we want it that's when we really have to think and make a good decision cause what we decide today will affect our tomorrow.

So given this situation, I have only 1 choice and I'm looking for a completeness in my life with this women. "You, complete me....." (anybody can tell me where is phrase is from?)

Being Grateful

I know in life we have to appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.

Many times in our life, we take things or people for granted, we just take and take and take without even once we stop, look around, say thanks or feel grateful for what we have at the moment. Then when those are gone, we started regretting our lack of gratitude all "what ifs?" and "i wish?" somehow come to surface, but it's too late cause sometimes certain good things only happen once in our life to the people whom i loved so dearly. Maybe it is true that we don't know what we have got until we lose it, BUT it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives. It has already arrived for me and that's my YCG.

"Marriage"

I've written a few topics on marriage before but when I read what I wrote, it bored the hell out of me! So maybe this time I'll write something a little different my thoughts about how people handle marriages nowadays at least not in Malaysia.

I just learn more that couples decide to get married with 1001 reasons. Some are with good reasons and purposes, others with some really ridiculous ones. The most common one i've heard is that the couples decide to get married coz they've been going out for quite sometime, so they think "it's time" for them to seal the relationship legally. It's just 'the next step', they say. Meanwhile sometimes the relationship itself isn't great at all. Some marry coz of business merger purpose, others with their own creative and interesting reasons. Late last night I was watching Discovery Channel and I can never forget what I'd learned, in some countries marriage pratices isn't just a constitution BUT legalizes 2 people to Kiss and have Sex and they have some kinda paperwork to claim the kids when things turn bad.

Ever watched any crazy reality shows (the bachelor, the bachelorette, joe millionaire, who wants to marry my dad, etc...), seems like people don't regard marriage seriously anymore. "Til death do us part' does those vows mean anyting anymore?

Now... and as for me, I do know now that:-

1. good women DO exist! (I'm keeping one myself)
2. good things DO happen! (Luckily I can fcuk & kiss before marriage)
3. someonewill go the distance just to make the person happy, don't underestimate the power of love.
4. you really need to be happy within in order to make the other person happy.
5. when it comes to life and getting married, time is running short before i hit 30. (270days left)

My Random Thoughts.....

In the past few weeks, from what i saw and from i experienced myself, i've learned....

• My family is definitely everything to me. Without them, i'm nothing.
• True friends are the ones who still stand by you and support you in the worst time of your life.
• Living in KL is so much fun but if you're not careful, it can be the worst distraction of all vampires do exist but this type of vampires don't suck blood. they suck your $$ to your last 1 sen.
• Never embarrassed someone like your customers. I just found out that they need to be "always right!"
• Is it true that when one can't trust others, s/he tends to do things that make them untrustworthy?
• The more you're committed to someone, the more tempations appear in front of you.
• It's really human nature that one will always want what s/he can't have there's no way you can change someone.
• As soon as you see an opportunity, just grab it, and think about it later.
• DEFINITELY there're so many beautiful people in this city but they behave like kids!
• Yes, 1st impression always brings the biggest impact, but give the person the 2nd chance.
• People in KL somehow are still bundled up when the weather is at the high 30s with the sun melting my CDs. We are warm people :)
• It's always nice to receive something very thoughtful and sweet from special someone... even better if it's not in the form of emails or text messages.
• In a way it's REALLY good being a guy, I can pee anywhere I want! Girl needs to find a petrol station or a restaurant.
• Being truthful and honest makes life simpler in a way.
• Quiting smoking is difficult and hard but quiting Sex is unimaginable!!! Suicidal!! I wanna die!
• Umm maybe i'll add more.... if i don't stop i'll go on and on and on.... rambling....

WC2006 Japanese Supporter

A family of Ultraman!! What happened to Godzilla then?

In the Situation

So, what happened in the past week? Well i have been in a few situations that requires patience, faith, trust, forgiveness, thoughts, happiness etc etc etc... i am still surviving right now. However, i wanna give the credits to my dearest gf who have always been there for me thick and thin never fail. I have never been treated with so much love in terms of care and kindness. I am not leaving out the rest of my dear friends, but these two things i received recently just cracked me up big time. So check these out, guys... this is how my friends show their love to me ;)

Date Movie

Man you have got to watch this fucking hilarious movie! HAHAHAHAHAHA!

Dentist Anyone?

The other day my gf brought up a subject about dentist. She asked if I have been to the dentist? Never have I thought that I will ever hear the word "dentist" again. It’s been a very long time since my last visit to a dentist but i started to feel guilty not going there. You know that kind of feeling that make you think that something really bad will happen to you and that you will hardly regret being so unresponsible.

There is nothing that gives me the heebie jeebies more than the dentist. (Well, clowns do but thats more like a heart gripping fear than the heebie jeebies).

Dear God, You love me. Please put into my path, a pretty, cute, gentle, chested, smells great, dentist who’s an angel. A female one, please. Bengali, Indian, Chinese or Malay I don't care Old or young.. Just as long she is she. Doesn’t matter. So long as he can sooth my pain, fears, phobia and cheap.

As Long That She is Kind

I just finished my business proposal for my new client in Penang. I think I did alright. I'm sure it could have been better, could have been worse if someone else have done it ;P. Anyway, I'm wasting time here until anything new is slamed on my office table. I was looking at DIY Love Websites and found some quizzes that was on it and I took the quiz test. Here's one of them. What is the one thing you want to look in a girl that comprised of? So basically, I'll like her as long as she's kind and not so much of intelligent but streetsmart.

Kindness is most important in a boyfriend or girlfriend. You want someone who will go through everything with you the best moments and the worst, and all of those other moments in between. You love to be able to say anything to your partner and have them say anything to you. This way you are able to be extremely close with your partner for that reason.

MSN Personal Note

This friend of mine has so much time in her hands that she captured this on her MSN and posted it on her blog. So i took it from her blog and posted it here and What la this women?!

The link is safeheaven.

I Love Pussy...

... Cat Dolls.

The POP music’s hottest 'feline' or is it felion group The Pussycat Dolls are coming to town. Sexyness!! Nicole Scherzinger, Carmit Bachar, Jessica Sutta, Melody Thornton, Kimberly Watt and Ashley Roberts, will perform at Sunway Surf Beach, Sunway Lagoon Theme Park, at 8pm on July 26 man!. It’s gonna be a wet and wild night for fans as the babes will strut their stuff to hit songs like Don’t Cha, Stickwitu and Beep, Steam ar!. I've checked the show promoter say tickets will be at RM200, RM100 and RM70. Do you know that The Pussycat Dolls was founded by choreographer Robin Antin and actress Christina Applegate in 1995?? They first appeared in Asia in 2004 to open the MTV Asia Awards in Singapore.

"Don'tcha wish ya boyfriend is hot like me! Don't cha!?"

It's the Little Things

I just got back from Penang on a business trip, I'm really tired but I just have to get this down before the morning breaks. The little things that make me happy.... I'm really amused and suprised as to how much happier I am now. I truly felt like I'm somebody to someone and what's the word?....."Special" like this for such long time. I owe this to my girlfriend. xoxoxoxo

Rude Rude Malaysians

A few weeks back I heard over the radio and by reading papers published a survey done by Reader Digest which said that We, Malaysian are 3rd Rudest people in the World!!! Wtf?! World??! How come the survey was only conducted in 35 Countries? What about the Jabarnese, who are known for their politeness? Oh well, the Reader Digest said that they did not carry out the survey in Japan because there is no Japanese version of Reader Digest.... how lame!

OK my version, so, are we actually rude? I would say "YES & YES WE ARE". I have some rude friends, rude and mean as they can be. They don't really care how you feel but they just tarok what they felt like saying. I tried very hard to understand them but to no avail. I just wish that they can be a little polite, kind and grateful to others. Besides we all have our own religion, and one common teaching all religion has is to be kind to others so that others can be kind to you.

Another good example i've seen this incident while eating BKT in Puchong roadside, a big 4 wheels drive zoomed past this already small road and bumped lightly on one of the customers head. The car stopped on the road side and the passenger wind down the passenger window. I really thought the passenger was gonna apologise. But instead, he stared back and adjusted his side mirror. So are we born rude or are we trained to be rude in this ever competitive and challenging country we live in?

Being Malaysian...

Malaysian mentality and excuses. I've added some myself enjoy!! LOL

1. NATIONAL EXCUSE FOR HAIR LOSS: Maggi Mee.
2. NATIONAL EXCUSE FOR BEING LATE: Traffic Jam.
3. NATIONAL CONDOM: None. Most Malaysians still feel embarrassed buying condoms. So they rushed into a 7-11, hurriedly grab the nearest pack,any pack, pay and leave before the cashier can even blink an eye.
4. NATIONAL FRUIT FOR INDUCING MENSTRUATION: Pineapple
5. NATIONAL APHRODISIAC DRINK: Stout. Many swear by it. But after a few pints they start swearing at everything...
6. NATIONAL FAKE ILLNESS FOR GETTING MC (MEN): Food Poisoning.
7. NATIONAL FAKE ILLNESS FOR GETTING MC (WOMEN): Menstrual Pain
8. NATIONAL EXCUSES GIVEN BY WOMEN WHEN REFUSING SEX: Headache, kids not asleep, maid not asleep, mother-in-law around, early appointment, food not digested yet, aircond not cold enough, aircond too cold, nail polish not dry yet, forgot to take the pill, sleepy,stomach cramps, period, haven't remove make-up, haven't shower, no water supply, going to watch "Santa Barbara", depress, no mood, etc...
9. NATIONAL EXCUSES GIVEN BY MEN WHEN REFUSING SEX: None. Malaysian men never refuse sex.
10. NATIONAL CURE FOR HEADACHES: Panadol. The "cure for all". If it fails we have another secret weapon; Tiger Balm
11. NATIONAL CURE FOR DIZZINESS: Minyak Angin Cap Kapak.
12. NATIONAL CAUSE OF DIZZINESS (FOR YUPPIES): Happy Hours.
13. NATIONAL INSTANT CURE FOR DIZZINESS (FOR YUPPIES): The sight of a police road block.
14. NATIONAL RUBBISH DUMP: Anywhere. As long as it is not your house.
15. NATIONAL MOST MIS-PRONOUNCED NAME: Carrefour. Sometimes even pronounced as Carry 4! On second thoughts, why bother pronouncing stupid French brands like Peugeot, Renault or Citroen correctly. I think it sounds better,when the local mechanics say "Pew Jeot". When I was in school, Milo was always 'Mee Lo', now that I'm sophisticated, I say "My Lo". So don't be embarassed saying "Carry 4" when the Mat Sallehs shamelessly pronounce orang utan as "rangutan".
16. NATIONAL ROADSIDE DISTRACTION: The Bra-less Tourist. See how heads turn and traffic slows down when a bra-less Mat Salleh backpacker goes bouncing about on the streets.

World Map

If you thought the ringgit or so road maps you buy at convinient stores are cool then you’ll be hard pressed to find a word to describe the experience of using Google Earth. Before you get too excited, do check to see if your computer meets the current requirements.

I don’t think you have to be a geographically sound (I did take 2 years of high school geography after all and I think most of you did) to appreciate this service. It’s amazing. You can zoom in, you can tilt the image, you can get driving directions superimposed on the satellite images, you can get road names added, dining options included and much more but these options only really apply to the US. Well they say it's still in beta/alpha stage. Keep in mind it's not real time and the data is around 1 to 2 years old.

Go play!

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Well, it's self explanatory. If those who doesn't comprehend let me know, I'll show you what it means.

Men Are Like...

Just to be fair...
Got this funny email from my friend :

1. Men are like….Laxatives. They irritate the shit out of you.
2. Men are like….Bananas. The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like….Weather . Nothing can be done to change them..
4. Men are like….Blenders. You need One, but you’re not quite sure why.
5. Men are like….Chocolate Bars. Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like….Commercials. You can’t believe a word they say.
7. Men are like….Department Stores. Their clothes are always 1/2 off.
8. Men are like….Government Bonds. They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like….Mascara. They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like….Popcorn. They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like….Snowstorms. You never know when they’re coming, how many inches you’ll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like….Lava Lamps. Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like….Parking Spots. All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.

My Blog Statistics 2

Of all the hardwork i put into this blog, I'm pretty much satisfied with the respond and support that you guys have been giving me for the past 15 months now. In the past week the respond has been good, eventhough i have not updated for weeks people still do come back. All in all, I will still continue to do what i like. For those who have written me emails requesting for certain type of writtings, I would of cause. :P

I have given this blog an opportunity to share other blogger sites which i frequent listed on the right.

Last but not the least, Thanks again guys! I promise I will write even more.