Almost Killed By A Women Driver!

This one will be short post. I really apologised to any female friends I have out there but consider this to be my opinion only and therefore, should not be angry by my statements on the following.

Women are bad drivers!!!

Did i just say that out loud? GOD safe me! Ummm not all.

Almost got side swipe by a women driver today while i was on the fast lane at 90 kmph. Almost lost control of my vehicle while trying to avoid her coming from the right. Apparently i was in her G - Spot, NO i mean blindspot. My car skidded from left to right on the fast lane and lucky for my Sentra Traction System I gained controlled of my car in about 3.5 secs! When i finally regained my senses, she was already 500 metres away and she don't even realized that she almost caused the death of one LengChai! (embarassed when i say this k..)

I do not believe that being a safe drivers makes you a good driver. Confidence in one's driving and driving defensively makes one a good driver.

And umm... Make up your mind!!! This is the typical problem I see with women drivers. Why can't they decide where they want to go. They make right turns from the left lane, drive in two lanes while deciding which way to go, brakes at green lights, drive too slow in the fast lane, etc.

Oh Lord forgive me.....

Let's hope i survive after posting this!

Please call me to check if I'm still alive, will ya?

Peace Out!

I Need New Intelligence!

I can't sit still and let the world pass me by. I am in a job where I really don't have to learn anything new. Just intruct! In one respect, that is good, however, from a career stand point, that is bad. Also, I am capable of handling loads of knowledge and I always want to learn new things. I think I am going to teach myself STOCK BROKING. It seems to be the way the people in the business industry is going (at least the part where making extra money in a non-competitve world) I have picked up some website teaching you how to play Stocks and I believe the prospects for long-term business are better with stock broking knowledge. I have a book already. It's called "Stock Broking For Dummies". I guess that is just one more challenge for my life. I can't sit still. I have to always be moving, learning, and doing something.

Yeap It's Official, MY LIFE SUCKS!

Ehhh, well it’s been a while since I’ve ever really talked about myself in my very own blog. Just to share a little about how my life really suck these few weeks back!

Work! It seems nothing is easy or an easy way out if you're running your own company! The pressure and the madness it gives you! Aaaaaaa That sucks!

Argh... what the fuck is happening to me?! Im lost my bearings in life, confused by women and lonely as it gets! That suck!

Lost of Sleep! Havn't been sleeping much... I've been thinking alot... That sucks!

Increased in bitterness emotionally. That sucks!

Went to a club last night, girl approach and ask "Are you gay? coz you don't seem to be bothered to chat up?" I'm Gay now! That sucks!

My hamster peed on my left hand and a few days later he went into constipation mode and crapped all over my right hand. That sucks!

My Notebook is now sitting on a cooler after it crashed and burned out during heavy MP3 head smashing and bangging. There goes my only company, something that i needed most after handphone... That sucks!

Where im sitting now, it's fucking bored! That sucks!

more to come......

It's Friday But It's So Quiet!

Why am i doing home? I need to get out! Yo, Where da partae at? Push it, push it real good!

Sing Me A Lullaby

OMG I'm still awake. I can't sleep! I got home around 6:30pm this evening and was so tired i went to sleep. Got up 9pm ate dinner and try to sleep again but I'm awake eversince. Damn, my eyes are wide open! Someone sing me a lullaby please.

You The Stranger In The Eyes Of Your Love One

If you put 5 friends, your partner and yourself in a group who do you think your partner will prioritize? Yourself you said? Wrong! I have a friend “A” who told me the partner prioritize the friends and left out my friend "A". “A” was unable to communicated or had any physical contact with the partner and was left unattended. But any attempt is made to interfere with the partner “A” will be given the 'look' and perhaps skinned alive. This happened many times “A” said. “A” asked me if this is normal. I told "A" “Yes” because the partner was chosen by you. I told “A” doesn’t deserved to be sympathized and blame yourself for it. LOL.

Guide To Accept the Heartless and Ungrateful.

Guide? There is no such thing as Guide for this. I've heard many instances where couples telling me that we should accept who your partner is no matter what and that you cannot change the character of the person. True! But to what extend?

Should there be a limit as to how your partner behave towards you? Whether or not your partner is hurting your feelings and yet you have to accept the consequences because you made the choice of choosing. Some of us have high tolerance, I really respect them. Even though how much you have given and done for your partner you will never ever be able to change the way your partner treats you. You tolerate because you love your partner, even though your partner is heartless and ungrateful at a certain time. You will keep pondering why your partner is able to do that to you even though you have done your best in making them happy. I guess we will never understand and accept this fact. Yes, you can be nobody at times in the eyes of your partner but what can you do? You made that choice.

Do you deserve to be symphatize? NO! Good Luck

Long Term Relationship Is It Really Complicated? (PART II)

I have received a few comments on the “Long Term Relationship is it Complicated? Part 1”. Some of my fellow blog readers said that Marriage will solve all the problems and because it is time. Let me explain here why this is not always the way to solve problems.

Yes we all picture ourselves eventually settling down with the “perfect” partner and build a strong and wonderful married life together and even create a family. I know there is a lot more to marriage besides the romance and love you feel for one another. A good and healthy marriage requires effort and team work!!! BUT there are question we need to sit down and discuss.

So what makes this person the one? Obviously your first answer will be because you love your partner but that is not the question!! The question is, what makes this person, out of all the other people you have met, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with? It is important to make a mental list on this, to prevent yourself from entering a marriage for the WRONG REASONs. Now here is the example I want to reply my readers; a wrong reason would be marrying because you feel that time is running out for you. I believe one cannot be pressured or allow others to pressure you with the idea that you are getting old and you are dating too long and may never have another opportunity to get married. You must have COMPETENCE you must be able to handle the different aspects of relationships with the opposite sex including conflicts. If you are not able to handle conflict and allow your partner to grab you by the balls. Then it will be your end.

First ask yourself if you are ready to be a wife or husband. Being a spouse is DIFFERENT than being a boyfriend, girlfriend or fiancé. It requires new and more RESPONSIBILITIES and a lot more ATTENTION.

Can you stay committed and faithful? Being able to commit and stay faithful is one of the biggest things that will lead you to marriage. Can you live with your partners lifestyles? If your partner has certain attitude that will drive you crazy, it can be worked out with effort on both your parts. However, if you feel you can never get along, then perhaps the two of you should not get married and continue dating and getting to each other before making any big decisions.

Last but not the least! Conscientiousness, what it means is individual who do unto others as they wish others do unto them, showing a kind caring approach are often conscientious. I know some of you out there felt that their partner don’t care how you are hurt as long as what they do is right, they are probably lack of conscientiousness. You will hurt more if you love your partner more then they love you. Yeah it’s a pain.

These are only some questions you should definitely find answers to before getting married. If you are confused on any of them or cannot find an answer, then do not get married until you do. If you want a marriage that will be happy, healthy and last forever, you should never involve yourself in a marriage until you decide you are truly ready for it.

Long Term Relationship Is It Really Complicated? (PART I)

Do you people ever feel that you have done your best in relationship to convince your partner that you’re the only one? In a way to make your partner to be pleased with what you have done for the relationship? BUT in the end of the day you’ll be disappointed because you didn’t get the results that you wanted from your partner. You don’t see any improvements. Though disappointed do you choose to be quiet and subdue everything inside you?

I belief some of you took this route which is to try very hard to work on being spontaneous and to do something that you normally wouldn't. I know relationships take a lot of work and it cannot be taken lightly and it's gotta be two-sided. If you are playing both roles in the relationship, would that lead you to being a loser in the end?

Some of us also try to have openness and honesty and we say is always the best way to go. If nothing is truly working, then perhaps it's easier to part ways. BUT before that, talk to one another that’s if your partner is willing to listen and not “believing” that the relationship is facing a problem. You will notice a relationship is leading to an end when they are unwilling to accept the fact and unwilling to solve the problem that the relationship is facing. A hint would be “whatever!” respond which is most common amongst our partners. THEN you should see whether you want out of your relationship cause there is nothing you can do.

Every relationship will always come with minor or major arguments but just gotta work 'em out and your relationship will grow to become a stronger bond with the person you cherish, right??? BUT some chose to often-ly “bow down”/compromise to your partner because you are afraid fights will erupt and lead to break ups. So you will just keep everything to yourself but I dare tell you this, it will make you a nobody in the eyes of your partner in a long run. Side effect of this would be your partner disrespecting you and hence losing your dignity as an equal. You know… those no give face thing, giving you the ‘treatment’. Roughly put, “grabbing you by the balls.”

In conclusion, don’t be a NOBODY, be somebody to your partner before it’s too late. Speak up and suggest new ideas of improvement. Get your balls back, set the record straight and save the relationship! It's important that it takes two to make it work out. Otherwise, it's not worth it to stay in that relationship. It's definitely important to be spontaneous in a relationship. Although you’ll be skinned alive but at least you have spilled out the problems you face in the relationship. And after that how you and your partner handle it is crucial. Hopefully “whatever” doesn’t pop up, again it will lead you to your end.

Double Sleep

Amazing! I slept a long time last night soon after i got home from work. This it the 2nd time I've ever been SO tired that I actually had dreams that I was sleeping. I wonder if that gives me double sleep.

Crappy thing about this time though was that I had nightmares and I also had nightmares in my dreams within a dream. Double nightmares! That's not fair. Man... if it were double wet dreams it would be double awesome!

Wet dreams haven't had that since form 1. sigh...

What Neglected Blog?

A friend of mine says I've been neglecting my blog, I haven't posted since the sleepy asshole hamster post. Well, I guess she hasn't seen this!

So here's what I've been doing instead of posting on my blog...

Wakeup, Shit, Eat, Smoke,Work, Eat, Smoke, Work, Eat, Smoke, Pee, TV, Computer, Jerk off, Sleep and I repeat that from Monday to Frinday. Go figure!