New Years Resolution 2007

2007 Resolution is the same 2006 Resolution, hahahaha. Well I wanted to wait a few more days to write this. I have known I needed to quit smoking for some time, I may have high blood pressure and I’m slightly overweight. I get out of breath too easily on little things like walking and talking. So i chose not to walk or talk too much until 2007 comes.

Well I psyched myself for weeks prior to new years I told this to myself “I’m quitting on new years” I told myself that, I told my wife, friends and my family, I even told the 7-11 casheir where I bought them. On New Years Eve I chain-smoked till midnight. Don’t get me wrong I liked smoking I quit because of the reasons I stated.

I am afraid of the apparently result of the lack of nicotine, it seems nicotine increases your heart rate and that’s why it tends to wake you up and breaking the nicotine addiction causes flu like symptoms. Now 3 days into quitting is enough time to start a new habit. The habit of not smoking! I travel without worrying about if I have a lighter or how many cigs I have. My car is cleaner. I can walk and talk faster without getting out of breath and that will be the result of of quitting.

If your one of the others who wishes to quit, good luck to you and hang in there.

Relationship 101

I realized I have been away from blosphere for few days now. No updates whatsoever and readers come here regularly for updates. (Site monitor averaging 15 hits per day). Oh well, business has been very good, year end ma hence the busy-ness but I can never do it alone now that I have my wife working for me. OK now, let’s see what can I post today? I’ve been reading on the Internet lately about who are the most successful Dot.com s. Yeap you guessed it right, Relationships are the TOP 5 sites such as ‘forums’, ‘seek love sites’ and ‘love consultation sites’. People really pay real money for LOVE……. Besides that, Porn sites is number 1 la.

Ok maybe I can contribute something to the Internet on relationships. All my life I have been in long relationships back to back and I have never written any of my experiences. Not my personal experiences but more towards what I saw and learned through the process of love and relationships.

I sense that people always develop love from intimacy slowly from a friendship to a commitment where you participate with a partner who is capable of a fulfilling intimate relationship and of cause trusting and being trusted. If yours is based on a commitment, you will feel secure about the future of the relationship. There is no confusion or fear of abandonment. You do not have to cling to the partner in your life for fear that they will want to pull away. Sometimes you have to relax la and are not anxious about losing the relationship. A good relationship is based on friendship and respect.

I always think that in a relationship there is trust and concern about each other's welfare and happiness. You can openly talk about your needs and that you are listened to. If two individuals can resolve conflict in a peaceful and calm manner, feelings can be openly expressed. Conflicts are resolved by coming to a compatible agreement. There is no right or wrong person if the agreed decision does not work out satisfactorily.

When people say “your half” it really does mean you are the other half of the half. Get it? If there is good communication, there are feelings of closeness and joy. Both partners should believe that they can gain far more by remembering to keep agreements. There is no need to dominate and compete with each other..

Ah, talk of a future together. You will feel reassured by the relationship's steadfast constancy. You feel cherished and you feel contentment. You maintain your personal dignity. A good relationship is one where both parties balance each other in taking actions to make the relationship work. You are not a hero, go find a heroin.

Now that you have read through this post it is a good idea that you pay me by clicking ONLINE BANKING. Like I said people pay real money for Love.

Malaysian TOL Collection Increase Argh!! Again?

Me being political this few days…

AAAAARRRRGGH WTF?!

I'm not shouting about the toll rise, I'm just not satisfied about what they've done. Of course everyone would not satisfied for any new changes. Ok let me ask you, when you know about this toll fee increase, are you very happy? Like "Hurray, my toll fee increase, my income doesn't increase?" No offence, but it’s true. If there is a balance in between our income and expenditure, our dissatisfaction would be reduce. Comparison about other country is not very appropriate in our case cause if they really want to increase the price they should at the very beginning, fixed a higher price. Why should the citizen bare the cost when government can no longer subsidize the Tol concessionaires? If they don’t have money to build a highway, don’t build la! Why build a “5km” highway with 2 Tols and collect from one end to the other and now they tell us they want to increase Tol rates?

This would give a big impact to many people, especially transportation, traveling, courier service, bus fare, food and a lot more while some unethical people would take this opportunity to gain from it again! And what government is doing in dealing with inflations? My bowl of wantan mee now cost RM3.50 and with my favorite chicken feet it cost RM4.00, so when the tol increase my mee become what? RM 4.60??? How Lin Kin Yau!!

If they really want to revise, revised it according to their budget and our budget since recent news had said that the vehicle on the road has increased. I don’t know how many million compared to pass few years. The Concessionaires should have more revenue now and should pay back what the government is subsidizing which is RM0.50 per every car not us citizens. On the other hand if there is more vehicle on the road, it should mean the highway concessionaires may required more fund for the maintenance and road repair expenses. OK now, government subsidies and we citizen pay the extra TOL fee so what highway concessionaires do? They should have all the budgeted expenditure before setting for the Tol price. They should for seen all this.

Housewives Contribution to EPF

A lot of people have been asking on how I am coping with my new occupation as a full time husband. Yeah! Good! That's what I am right now.

In this post I wanna touch a little bit on political and econimics. EPF (Employees Provident Fund) recent announcement to allow husbands to make contributions for housewives. I guess the position House Manager, Supervisor, Home maker does have an economics to it. I totally agree to that. My mum is a good housewife and i think she deserves a better tomorrow in the near future.

But I also have second thoughts about this. Husband is contributing EPF for their housewives yet I pity those husband's wife who burn money away doing "frivoulous" stuffs like buying tonnes of tupperwares, enlarge breasts, tighten down there, plastic surgery, buy diamonds like buying chocolate, etc etc...

Woke Me Up

It's 1:30am damn cough woke me up, I guess I was snoring and I got choked up and cough plus this sorethroat of mine. See you people in the morning!

Poot!

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Cough! Cough! Cough!

I am still nursing a bad throat. I ate too much "kuachi". My sore throat has mutated into a very rough cough. It's been 2 days now that I've had Strepsils in my pocket but does nothing to help ease the pain in my throat. I have been taking some Pei Pah Kau so I can sleep soundly without getting up in the middle of the night coughing which has been helpful. Still, it doesn't quite feel like it's breaking yet. No fever to speak of which is good, but it's a bit of a drag. I have had the will not to smoke this morning, but it left me with much emptiness. So I will try to rest as much as I can.

Loyal To Hotmail

I have been a loyal Hotmail user for a long long time. It was my first email account and at that time Hotmail wasn't even under Microsoft!! Microsoft only announced that it was acquiring Hotmail in early 1998. I was doing my Degree in US at that time, it was pretty amazing because it was one of first web based free e-mail (if I am not mistaken there are others like RocketMail).I have since moved on and hardly anyone I know, uses Hotmail anymore. I still take great pains to keep the account alive because you never know when a long lost friend might contact you. I had to re-sign up 2 times over the years because my account had become inactive.

Hotmail was trying very hard to compete with other big boys which in few months back they have upgraded their inbox capacity to 250 MB and just recently to 1 GB!. It's a welcome move but I can't just help but wonder whether they have missed out on the boat. Most of my friends have since, moved onto Yahoo! and Gmail.

I will always remain loyal to Hotmail.

A Business Man

The thing I hate most about my business is that I can't complain. Don't get me wrong, I love my business. I love it enough to survive for the 4th year and I'm glad to say business is improving every month.

Like all jobs, there are definitely bad things that you would love to whine about. This job is no different. But i can't complain! I'm in a manufacturing industry. Yes, place where you create stuff into the market. And most of my clients are loyal to me. They are clients I managed to establish professional relationships. Or clients who I managed to create valuable friendships. In any case, i treat every single of them professionally in my handling, and amicably in my friendship. And if i complain in general, I don't want them to get the feeling that they are part of the complain, and feel guilty. Or worse, feel offended.and since some of them know one another, i dare not complain for i need to make sure all our consultation matters are private and confidential.

"WHERE ARE MY PAYMENTS??!?!!!!"

Stupid Ar!

Stupid things I've done so far (this is getting far too regular in my blog).

• Need cigarettes. Bought a box of cigarettes. Paid for cigarettes. Left the cashier. without the cigarettes.
• Need petrol. Pay full tank petrol RM80. Pump petrol stop on RM 75.00. Wanted to drink the remaining RM5 but dare not so give charity RM5 to two mat motors.
  

Solution I've came up with:
Bought another cigarette
Bring empty bottle

Mastering The Yoga Technique

I really think I should share this Yoga techniq with all of my readers. I got this mastery yoga posture from the web and don't belief anything you hear on how difficult yoga stretch and bend techniques are. This picture which I'm about to show you can prove people like you and me can do it anytime, anywhere. Here's how....

MUST Read this text circled in red! (Click on picture to enlarge)

yeah by drinking more whiskey or beer. Cheers!!

What I Want For Christmas!

Since I'm gonna be rich, I better have a much better wallet to keep all the credits cards and money.

Hahahaha....... (i'm kidding)

Okok, I'm serious. But the main reason why I need a new wallet is cause my old one is so battered and spoilt, my ATM cards are broken at the edges cause of my heavy ass sitting on it. And all my cards are forever peeling and dropping out. I will like a professional looking one. Black leather. One with sufficient cards components. Actually anything Gucci or LV will suffice.

Muahhahaha..... (evil grin)

What better way to seal contracts and long lasting financial relationships! The pen is - mightier than the sword. What pen you ask? A Mont Blanc of cause! At this moment I have a pirated version of the pen which I use it daily to show off. It really look nice when it hangs at your shirt pocket. To be honest I made it look good!

Muahahhahaaaa........ (nasty laugh)

My wife just told me today she wants to get me something I needed for Christmas, let's hope she is reading this post tomorrow morning.

Muahahhahahhhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa (plain evil)

Away

Dear Faithful Readers,

Sorry for the lack of updates over the weekend, since I try to write every weekday. Been a busy week but thanks for coming back here even though there's no updates.