Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Relationship 101

I realized I have been away from blosphere for few days now. No updates whatsoever and readers come here regularly for updates. (Site monitor averaging 15 hits per day). Oh well, business has been very good, year end ma hence the busy-ness but I can never do it alone now that I have my wife working for me. OK now, let’s see what can I post today? I’ve been reading on the Internet lately about who are the most successful Dot.com s. Yeap you guessed it right, Relationships are the TOP 5 sites such as ‘forums’, ‘seek love sites’ and ‘love consultation sites’. People really pay real money for LOVE……. Besides that, Porn sites is number 1 la.

Ok maybe I can contribute something to the Internet on relationships. All my life I have been in long relationships back to back and I have never written any of my experiences. Not my personal experiences but more towards what I saw and learned through the process of love and relationships.

I sense that people always develop love from intimacy slowly from a friendship to a commitment where you participate with a partner who is capable of a fulfilling intimate relationship and of cause trusting and being trusted. If yours is based on a commitment, you will feel secure about the future of the relationship. There is no confusion or fear of abandonment. You do not have to cling to the partner in your life for fear that they will want to pull away. Sometimes you have to relax la and are not anxious about losing the relationship. A good relationship is based on friendship and respect.

I always think that in a relationship there is trust and concern about each other's welfare and happiness. You can openly talk about your needs and that you are listened to. If two individuals can resolve conflict in a peaceful and calm manner, feelings can be openly expressed. Conflicts are resolved by coming to a compatible agreement. There is no right or wrong person if the agreed decision does not work out satisfactorily.

When people say “your half” it really does mean you are the other half of the half. Get it? If there is good communication, there are feelings of closeness and joy. Both partners should believe that they can gain far more by remembering to keep agreements. There is no need to dominate and compete with each other..

Ah, talk of a future together. You will feel reassured by the relationship's steadfast constancy. You feel cherished and you feel contentment. You maintain your personal dignity. A good relationship is one where both parties balance each other in taking actions to make the relationship work. You are not a hero, go find a heroin.

Now that you have read through this post it is a good idea that you pay me by clicking ONLINE BANKING. Like I said people pay real money for Love.

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