The worst thing to do is to compare the past to the future, if you want a situation to be just like the past, it is impossible because 3 things from then I realized have changed other people, places and myself, I smile alot now at what I have now and dream about what fun and how good it wil be.
It works when I realize that the past is truly the past and I have done my best. The present and the future will be ruin if I kept getting down about the past. I've started anew and it's working perfectly fine. Defiantly worth it.
By looking at the future I think it spurred me into positive action more than anything. I’ve been laughing a lot this year and living in the present, and I’m smiling a LOT while thinking of my wedding in June 2007. Alot has been put in thoughts about how to make good money with my business, support my wife and to start a family by 2008. I am very lucky to have wife that knows her position in the relationship and I appreciate every effort she puts into me.
I always strive to have a better future and not just looking at the present in order to have a good position in life. What i mean is look at thing broadly and be mature with what you want to have and whether there will be a future in it.
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I totally agree with you ed, sometimes things in the past cannot be undone. what is done is done but at least I can tell you are happy now and glad that you see the future instead. Some people may just look at for what is beautiful or pretty, what is good looking or cute, and rich but all these are mere cravings and desire. In my opinion, I must be satisfied with what i have and not be avaricious over those that i mentioned above. It's not about flaunting about what you have and who you are with, it's about moderation, whether if there is a future for us.
wow! i must say, this was what i wanted to say but could find the words to use. anyway thanks for the comments. words from a married dude hahaha
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