TLC

Trust, Loving & Care might seem as very simple words, but as a matter of fact, it's a HUGE word. Not many people can do and not many are trustworthy. People said that in relationship, trust, honesty and communications are some of the most important elements. Man, how accurate that statement is. I learnt 1st hand how hard it is to TLC someone, especially when there was a moment in the past that shattered everything I once believed in. For years, it haunts me. Really it does. For years, it always comes between me and whomever I care about. It's tiring and energy consuming for me.

I learned that you can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time. Though it wasn't easy at all for me to see it but I came to realize that not everybody was the same. I have to make peace within myself in order to move on. As hard as finding a needle in a haystack, there're still good people out there, and i am very fortunate to know one, Carmen Y.C.G.

With this new person in my picture now i've learnt that giving TLC is extremely easy. I once thought it was hardest thing on earth to do. Indeed it's very important in every type of relationship. None can work without it. TLC can be developed over time if you give the other person a chance to prove themselves and let them earn it. uhmm ONLY if you're willing and you truly care about the person. In the past few months, i had the best GF i've ever met in my life who had been showing me 1st hand about myself, relationship, the importance of TLC and communication, and how rough and tough life can be to certain people, yet I still manage to come out of it with flying colors. I haven't learnt that much yet, but considering what i have with me now, i just made a huge step in growing up with my GF's help. Thank you.