Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Please la....

This few days I've had friends complaining about their partners, about this, about that. It is as though they are not ready for any commitments or relationships. Then why have one?? If you cannot accept them as part of your life then don't even start one!! Geez!! Relationship is not a ride in the park, it's about commitment and responsibilities not just LOVE! Not just one leg kicking and one hand clapping. If your partner wants to go happy happy joy joy and doen't seem to care about you, or don't get things done, then what can you do? Just blame yourself for putting yourself in this position. Nobody can help you but yourself, as a true friend i'm on neutral grounds, i can't side anyone.

A little personal note, people do change thru time, it's a matter of when? He can do all that he wants now but one day he's going to think deep, he'll know who's true and have been committed to him all these while. Break up is not the solution unless you are very sure of your future. Good Luck.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

i think different couple has differnt way of getting along. Some are ok with it and some are not.

Anonymous said...

it is mind over matter.

Anonymous said...

wah!!! base on your experience u say like that or what ar?

Unknown said...

I also want to add that sometimes it is not always your partners, we have to see it in ourselve too.

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